Anthony "Tony" James Wyand

Anthony James Wyand, known fondly as Tony, passed away peacefully on Tuesday June 2, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Born on January 17, 1940, in Bonham, Texas, to Clyde Edward and Barbara Alice Wyand, Tony’s life was remarkable for his love for the Lord, his family, and service.

Tony grew up in Laverne, Oklahoma, where his childhood was marked by adventurous rubber band and BB gun wars with his friend Rod Rambo, his brothers, and other neighborhood kids, teaching him to stay cool under fire. His high school years were highlighted by his role as the quarterback and co-captain of the Laverne Tigers football team, alongside Rod. He graduated in 1958, earning a scholarship to Northwestern State College.

A tragic car accident, however, ended his promising football career and scholarship. But as fate would have it, this turn of events led Tony to a new and more fulfilling path. In 1959, he married the love of his life, Kathy Diane Herber, whose kindness and strength became the cornerstone of their family. Together, they raised three wonderful children: James Russell, Susan Diane, and Taylor Jake, instilling in them the values of faith and community.

Encouraged by his father-in-law, Tony pursued a career in dentistry, which led him to the University of Oklahoma and then to graduate from dental school at the University of Tennessee. He opened his own practice in Cushing, Oklahoma, where he served the community for several years. Drawn to serve his country and the high standards and discipline of the military, Tony joined the Air Force as a dentist in 1975, eventually retiring as a Lieutenant Colonel after 23 years of distinguished service. His military career allowed him and Kathy to travel the world, creating cherished memories and lifelong friendships.

Tony was a proud grandfather to seven grandchildren and a great-grandfather to six great-grandchildren, each of whom brought immense joy to his life. They filled his chest with awe and love. He believed they were each destined for greatness and no argument, setback, or disappointment could convince him otherwise.

Through the latter years of his life, Tony's trust in God and his understanding of how God worked in his life deepened. He often shared his wisdom, saying, "The upward path of gratitude and thanksgiving will take you wherever you want to go." He also cautioned against negativity, warning that "whining and complaining is the ticket to getting on that long black train." Tony believed that little lies lead to bigger lies, envy, resentment, bitterness, and ultimately, a bad outcome. His heartfelt advice was always, "Folks, stay off that long black train; it leads to the pits of hell."

Tony often reflected on the purpose of life, stating, "God created us for a purpose." Though we may not always know that purpose, he believed we all needed to “give thanks for all things.” He also imparted this important lesson: "When we take on a hard task in life and overcome it, we do not take pride in it but realize we are God's servants, just doing our job." He would say, "God hates pride but loves overcomers."

Tony's life was a testament to the power of faith, family, and commitment. His legacy is one of dedication, love, optimism, generosity, and perseverance. His journey, from the fields of Laverne to the corners of the globe, touched many lives. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

A celebration of Tony's life will be held at the Meadowood Baptist Church, Midwest City, OK, June 27 at 1:00. 

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to your church, favorite ministry, or someone in need.

Rest in peace, Tony, Dad, Grandpa. Your journey was well-lived, and your memory will be cherished forever.