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ERVIN LEE HOLMES JR.

June 11, 1960 ~ December 30, 2016 (age 56) 56 Years Old
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A candle was lit by Ruth holmes on November 28, 2020 6:02 PM
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A candle was lit by Charlie Holmes on June 28, 2020 10:03 PM
Message from Ruth holmes
November 11, 2019 8:32 PM

I still think about you all the time dad I love you and I miss you you’ll never be forgotten
Message from Ernest Bozarth
January 24, 2017 11:05 PM

Hope you are in your mom's arms man .you are safe now and not hurting anymore , love you bud,
Message from Lisa (Bondch) Moder
January 23, 2017 7:59 PM

Bud - While I only knew you for a short period when you lived in Colorado, I feel like I really got to know you then.  After all, I gave you a son.  I will always remember when I brought Daniel to visit you in Oklahoma when he was only 2 years old and when you had the opportunity to visit us in Colorado when Daniel was 5.  

We grew apart, but you have always been in our prayers.

I am sad you are gone but also glad you are with family and friends in heaven.
Message from Charlie Holmes
January 16, 2017 4:05 PM

Wow, Bud!  I wasn't ready, even after more than 2 weeks, to have to write something in here.  I miss you like crazy, man.  If only we could have had one more day....  No, I wouldn't have been ready then, either, but I'd have had the chance to let you see my face when I told you how much I love you.

So many memories, good times & not-so-good times, events important and unimportant..  all the things brothers go through in life, we experienced a lot.  You more than I, but it was deemed important that I not learn about some of your personal experiences until adulthood.  I'll never know what you went through this side of heaven, and I hope you'll be allowed to tell me when I join you there.

I'm getting better, but this is so hard, Bud. You weren't supposed to go, yet.  But I believe you're aware of what's going on here, so I'll be talking to you from time to time. I promise.

I love you, Ervin Lee Holmes! I love you very much.

Always your brother,
Charlie
Message from Ruth Ida Holmes
January 9, 2017 1:46 AM

I miss my dad so much and I know my mom and my uncle miss him too
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